How “Comfortable” Are You, Really?

by Gladys Diaz

 

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This past week has been one of those lesson-learning not-so-comfortable weeks

 

You know… the kind of week that pretty much changes

 

Not only was my oldest son was a way at summer camp, several states away from me, for a whole week, but I also could not communicate with him to make sure that he was

 

As I’ve mentioned before, my son has Autism, so I really had to surrender and have faith that he would be able to deal all of the things that were so far outside of his comfort zone (and mine!), like not knowing what was going to be served for meals, sleeping in a tent during the thunderstorms that came through at night, and facing his fear of spiders and

 

When I saw my son step out of the bus on Saturday night, it took everything in the world for me not to lose it!  I felt so much joy and relief!  He was in one piece, smiling, looked like he’d matured 5 years, and all he wanted to do was hug

 

Yes, there were “horror stories” of spiders and bugs and rain and mud, but, overall, he had a good time, he asked for peanut butter and jelly sandwiches when he didn’t like the food being served, tried to keep the bugs away from him with repellent, and he said he was so tired he slept through the

 

As uncomfortable and unfamiliar as it all felt for him, he got through it (and so did

 

What this week taught me is that, even though things may be scary and uncomfortable – and way out of your comfort zone – it’s only when you step outside of our comfort zone that you can

 

 

Think about it.

The results that you have today are the results you’ve been able to produce from inside of your comfort zone.

 

The relationships you’ve had (or not had) the experiences you’ve created, and the current state of your love life were all produced inside of your comfort zone.

The comfort zone keeps you feeling “safe.”  It has you make predictable choices.  It doesn’t ask you to risk too much, because that would feel uncomfortable.

 

The truth is, however that the results you really want can’t be produced inside of your comfort zone. 

 

If you want to change your current situation, you’re going to have to be willing to step beyond what feels safe and comfortable and take a risk.

You’re going to have to be willing to let go of the familiar patterns and behaviors that have been keeping you stuck and feeling hopeless and alone.

You’re going to need to make a change.

 

And, yes, it’s going to feel scary. 

And, no, there are no guarantees.

 

On the other hand, the only guarantee inside of your comfort zone is that you’ll continue making the same choices, getting the same results, and having the same painful experiences you’ve been having.

 

Imagine for a second what you’d be able to do if you stepped outside of your comfort?

What would be possible for you?

 

If you’re really ready to step outside of your comfort zone, but you’re not sure how, go ahead and click on the link below to set up a time to talk. I’ve got just a few spots available for next week, so make sure you click below and schedule time now!

<<Click here to set up a time to talk>>

On this call I promise to help you create a plan for stepping outside of this comfort zone so that you can begin to move past whatever has been stopping you in having the kind of loving relationship you want!

 

No more “being comfortable,” but not getting what you want. 

No more pretending you’re okay with the status quo when you know you want more!

It’s time to step outside your comfort zone and get the love you want!

No matter where you are right now, if it’s not where you want to be in terms of being in the loving relationship your heart desires, then I’m going to encourage you to take a step outside of your comfort zone, and click on the link below!

<<Click here to set up a time to talk>>

 

 


How can I break through my love barriers and attract new and extraordinary love?

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Are you tired of feeling lonely, frustrated, and hopeless about love and relationships? 

 

What if you could learn the skills to attracting and creating the kind of love and romance your heart truly desires?

If you are ready to break through your love barriers and finally experience the happiness and love you have always dreamed of, click below to listen to how you can end the struggle and suffering around dating and relationships and get ready to love again!

 

How can I break through my love barriers and attract new and extraordinary love? (Very Special Offer!)

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


Why am I the one responsible for attracting love?

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Are your unsuccessful experiences with dating and relationships making you want to give up?

Are you beginning to wonder whether there is something wrong with you or the men you keep attracting?

Before you can attract the right person for you, you need to figure out what’s been standing in the way of attracting him into your life. 

If this statement upsets you or makes you ask, “Why am I the one who has to change?  Why is it all up to me?  Isn’t it about the men, too?”  then listen to the clip below, where we explain why the good news is that it is up to you, because that means you’re in 100% control of attracting and creating the relationship of your dream!

How come I’m the one who is attracting the wrong person? Isn’t it about the men, too?

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


How can I break the patterns that keep sabotaging my relationships?

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Are there patterns that keep showing up in your relationships?

  • Dating unfaithful or unavailable men?
  • Short-lived romances that end after a few dates?
  • Getting emotionally attached too quickly to a man?
  • Having sex too early in a relationship?

 

Knowing that there is a pattern is only the first step in possibly breaking through it.  To truly break through a pattern, you need to know how to distinguish and dismantle the pattern!

In the recording below, you can go through an exercise to identify one of your patterns and listen in on a live coaching session with a participant on our “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call.  You’ll also learn the steps you can take to break through your own self-sabotaging patterns once and for all!

 

How can I break the patterns that keep sabotaging my relationships? (Exercise and Live Coaching Session)

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


How can I get a man to be attracted to me again?

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You know he’s a great match for you, but he’s lost interest and you want to know how to “get him back”!

This can lead you to put yourself in the position of pursuing a man, rather than being pursued by him.  And why is it that you want to be with a man who is not interested in you in the first place? 

In the clip below listen to us answer the question from a woman who wanted to know how to get a man who was previously interested in her to be attracted to her again.

How can I get a man to be attracted to me again?

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


How can I trust myself again to choose the right man after I’ve chosen the wrong one?

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If you’ve ever thought that a man was absolutely perfect for you and then found out that he wasn’t, not only can it be painful, but it can also lead you to question whether or not you can trust your intuition to help you make the right choices when it comes to love. 

 

The good news is that your intuition is not broken — you’re just not paying attention to it!

 

In the clip below, listen in as we coach one of the participants on our “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call on how to learn to trust yourself again to choose the right guy for you after you’ve chosen Mr. Wrong.

 

How can I trust myself again to choose the right man after I’ve chosen the wrong one? (Live Coaching Session)

 

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


How do I know which man to choose?

 

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Dating more than one man at a time is a great way to avoid getting too quickly attached to a man. It’s also a great way to determine if the man you are choosing to spend more time with is the right one for you.  Click below to hear how we answered a reader’s question about how to know which guy to pick when you’re dating more than one man at a time.

How do I know which man to choose if I’m dating more than one at a time?

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


How can I relax when a man who is attracted to me approaches me?

 

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Not knowing how to feel confident when flirting and dating men can send the signal, “I’m not approachable” or “I’m not interested.”  Click below to hear how we answered one of our reader’s questions about how to relax when a man who she finds attractive approaches her.

How can I relax when a man who is attracted to me approaches me?

Still have a question you’d like answered?  


We’ve got the answers to your top questions about love!

by Gladys Diaz

 

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The weekend is upon us and we know it can be a tough time when you’re single or unhappy in love.

We also know that being single is just temporary when you have the skills that can help you break through your love barriers and begin attracting the kind of man, love, and relationship you truly want!

 

We can hear you asking, Okay, so how do I do that?

We thought you’d ask!  It’s why we hosted a “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call on Tuesday!

We received tons of questions from women all of the world in different stages of life and love, and we loved that we got to coach some of them LIVE on the call!

If you missed out, we wanted to give you the opportunity to hear some of the discussions, questions and answers that took place on the call.

 

More importantly, we want you to hear the answers that most relate to where you are in your love life, so we’re making it easy for you!

 

When you click on a question  below, you’ll be able to click on a question or topic that you’re interested in and listen to Michelle and I address it!

 

You’ll also be able to:

  • Listen to 2 live coaching sessions
  • Go through an exercise to identify your dysfunctional love patterns
  • And take advantage of a really special opportunity to work talk with me and Michelle to get your questions answered personally!

 

Talk about having it your way!

We’re all about giving you the tools and the answers you need to have the love your heart desires! 
Let us know your a-ha’s when you comment below!

 

Just click under a question to get your answer!  

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ConfusedTeen2bingHow do I know which man to choose if I’m dating more than one at a time?

 

 

 

I-trust-myself_bingHow can I trust myself again to choose the right man after I’ve chosen the wrong one? (Live Coaching Session)

 

 

 

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breaking-the-chains_bingHow can I break the patterns that keep sabotaging my relationships? (Exercise and Live Coaching Session)

 

 

 

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 14 lets be in love_bingHow can I break through my love barriers and attract new and extraordinary love? (Very Special Offer!)

 

Still have a question you need answered?  


Another Relationship Dream Come True!

by Gladys Diaz

 

When Jeanie first came to work with us, she was an incredibly successful woman in a high-powered, high-paying job that allowed her to live a life of luxury – traveling and vacationing wherever she wanted, dining in fine restaurants, living in her dream apartment. 

She was “living the dream.”

Except for one thing. She didn’t have someone to share this wonderful amazing life with, and she wanted that, too! 

Jeanie took the steps to figure out what was standing in the way of her attracting and experiencing the love her heart desired! She worked with us in our programs, received and applied the coaching, and believed that it could and would happen for her!

Fast forward to last month…

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We received the great news that she was getting married to an amazing, wonderful man who, in her own words, makes her feel loved and adored in ways she’s never known before!

 

 

 

Then, a few weeks ago, we received a beautiful invitation to their engagement party, and just yesterday we learned that she and her fiancé are having a baby boy!Jeanie Hernandez_It's a boy

 

Talk about a year of dreams coming true!

 

 

 

When she spoke on our Success Panel last month, at The Irresistible Woman Seminar, Jeanie shared how it was the coaching that she received through working with us that had her attract such an amazing man into her life. She learned the keys to loving and honoring herself so that she could attract a man who lives for doing the same for her!

Jeanie Hernandez_IWS2We know that this love and happiness is possible for you, too!  That’s why we are excited to be able to connect with and answer your questions tomorrow night on our “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call! On this call we’ll be sharing with you the same coaching we’ve given to women like Jeanie and the hundreds of other women around the world who are making their relationship dreams come true!

Just click here to join us on Tuesday, June 23rd at 9:00pm!

Then come ready to have your own breakthrough so that you, too, can have the love your heart desires!

 

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On this call, we will be answering YOUR questions about love, dating, and relationships.

  • What’s your greatest fear when it comes to love and relationships?
  • What patterns keep showing up in your relationships?
  • What’s causing you the biggest amount of pain right now in your love life?
  • Where do you feel “stuck” and unable to move forward, toward new love?

Ask us your question now!